Essential Steps to a Smoother Divorce

Planning ahead for a smooth separation will help you avoid heartburn once you begin to move forward. In the new age of “conscious decoupling” (thanks to Gwyneth Paltrow), families don’t have to fall apart just because their marriage does. Divorce is a process that can and should be collaborative and respectful. Here are some tricks to help our clients do just that.

1. Create a New Budget and Financial Plan

A budget will help you get a grip on your finances and assets. Find a budgeting tool that works for you!

2. Do Not Worry About the Impact of Divorce on Your Children

Children are resilient, and they require a peaceful home. They are impacted by their parents’ fights. It’s better for them to have divorced parents who are happy than parents who feel obliged to remain together.

3. Teamwork is Important

Sit down and talk about your plans for divorce and the timeline. It helps you visualize your separate lives and prepare for the divorce process. It’s also a great time to involve your children and extended family, as they need to know the situation to be able to help.

4. Keep Records

If you were married and there was domestic violence, you should have kept a record of all your interactions. Keep all messages, voicemails, or emails that your spouse sends you, even if they are threatening. Book your mediation ASAP. You need someone who can help you sort out all the details of divorce. The earlier you start, the better you will understand how it may play out. Both parties must agree to attend private mediation. Mediation is required in Florida for every divorce.

5. Set Your Feelings Aside

Any decision you make should be based on one question: Is it the best choice for me and my children? Everything else is irrelevant.

Successful Solution specializes in Mediation/Parent Coordination, aiding families through pivotal moments. Additionally, she offers divorce/life transition coaching and is a Divorce Mediator Sarasota FL. Your peace of mind is our utmost priority. Reach out for a solution grounded in experience and expertise today.